An open relationship is when partners agree to have romantic or sexual connections with others while keeping their main relationship strong.
Unlike monogamy, open relationships allow different levels of emotional and physical involvement with others.
To make an open relationship work, trust, communication, and clear boundaries are essential. Without them, misunderstandings, jealousy, and insecurity can arise, causing conflict.
Here’s how to set boundaries to help you and your partner feel safe, valued, and respected.
Communicate openly
Open and honest communication is essential in any relationship, but it is even more critical in an open relationship.
Discuss expectations, fears, and desires with your partner to ensure that you are on the same page.
Define your relationship structure
Decide what kind of open relationship suits you, such as polyamory, swinging, or casual dating. Set guidelines to match your comfort levels.
Set emotional and physical boundaries
Physical boundaries: Agree on what types of physical intimacy are permitted with other partners.
Emotional boundaries: Decide on the level of emotional involvement that is comfortable for both of you.
Time boundaries: Determine how much time each partner can spend with other people to ensure that the primary relationship remains a priority.
Establish safe sex practices
Agree on rules about contraception, STI testing, and discussing new partners to ensure health and safety.
Decide on disclosure levels
Some couples share all the details about external relationships, while others prefer only necessary information. Choose what works best for you.
Create a plan for conflict resolution
Disagreements may happen, so have a plan for handling them. Regular check-ins, counselling, or setting aside time for discussions can help.
Stay flexible
Boundaries may need adjustments over time. Regularly check in with your partner to see if your agreements still work and make changes if needed.
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